After losing a woman that I loved, and a marriage of almost 16 years, here’s the advice I wish I would have had:1. This is the most important and sacred treasure you will ever be entrusted with. Never forget that, and NEVER GET LAZY in your love. Protect your own heart Just as you committed to being the protector of her heart, you must guard your own with the same vigilance.
Love yourself fully, love the world openly, but there is a special place in your heart where no one must enter except for your wife.
A man in Germany responded with some of the deepest insights I’ve read in years.
Men in USA and Singapore spoke healing words to men in Europe and India.
While others make those decisions with what’s best for them or their careers in mind.
Yet others start new families and think more about that new family and less about the kids from their former relationship.
In that post, I shared how in my state – Florida – the family law rules have changed recently and one of the significant changes is that the term visitation is no longer used; instead, it’s now time-sharing. The Florida courts now promote the idea that kids have two homes in which they live – no longer living primarily with one parent and visiting the other every other weekend.Even boys have something to say if you listen long enough. "You should never kiss a girl unless you have enough bucks to buy her a ring and her own VCR, cause she'll want to have videos of the wedding." -Allan, Age 10 "Never kiss in front of other people.It's a big embarrassing thing if anybody sees you....A few years ago, a friend of mine was going through a long divorce and she said to me, “It’s been two years and I’m still not over it.I WANT to be over it—over him, but I just don’t know how to do it.” I felt sorry for her because I get it.