When we do, I look his way every so often to see if he’s staring back, to see if we’ve got what my best friend and I call “the affinity,” a mutual acknowledgement that we one another. But while they chased after blondes and brunettes, I was ignored.
It’s a pretty good way to pass the time from Brooklyn to midtown. I spent my childhood surrounded by black and brown kids, but when I got to high school, suddenly everyone around me was white.
And then I was like, oh yeah — this is that feeling from back when I had boyfriends. Like I am not worthy of being loved because of how I look. I feel almost physically sub-human, as if any man who looks at my naked body without saying something cruel is doing me a kindness. When I was dating women, and when I was not dating, I didn’t really stress out about my appearance.
I mean, I’m tall and successful, so he should be MORE tall and successful. As long as a woman is kind, cute and brushes her teeth, she is considered eligible.
Following is a list of places you can locate or meet rich men. There are some good places where you can find and date rich men.
For instance, Los Angeles, Washington DC and New York City are places you can easily meet the affluent classes of rich men because of the wealthy job market.
Dating a butch women who is shit that I never noticed before, especially when I bring up being sexually assaulted.
I remember one guy telling me, after I told him about the assault, that he thought society would be better if men were chemically castrated.